Happy Birthday to Kevin!

Today is my son’s birthday and my mind is flooded with memories of birthdays past. My image from his 1st birthday is his face plant into his cake, and looking up at me giggling with chocolate frosting covering his face. Then, on his 2nd birthday, his cousins drove from CT to be at his 1st big birthday party with his friends from pre-school. It was his 1st time in the climbing structure at our local party place and his cousins followed him around protecting him from the children pushing and shoving, as if he were their little brother. It was so sweet.

Fast forward to his 4th birthday, we went big and took him to Disney World. Squeals of glee and excitement were eventually replaced with overload from all of the fun and crowds of people. When we tried to get him to take a nap, he had a meltdown and fired us as his parents. Despite his temper tantrum, what I remember most was his joy and laughter.

The biggest party of them all on his 6th birthday made me legendary in our town.  I turned my house into the World Beyblade Championship.  My living room was the stadium for battles, my kitchen had a hotdog stand, stadium popcorn machine and stadium snow cone machine.  To make the concessions complete, I spoke with a heavy Boston accent like the concessions at Fenway Park.  What made me a legend was the wall of prizes in my dining room.  I made sure that everyone got prizes and had a good time.  Each year has special memories and I would not trade them for anything in the world. Most of all I remember his joy and how grateful I am to be his Mom. Happy Birthday Kevin! I hope you have a wonderful birthday.

 

Share and Share Alike

What I enjoy most about being part of the Motherhood Society is our sharing with each other. I have a friend who has been a mom longer and gave me good advice about disciplining my son. She had more experience and success with this issue and helped me find my way.

 

Today, I had the honor of helping her with recipes and places to find gluten free and dairy free food for her son. While her son is having problems at 12, my son has been allergic since birth. I have spent the last 8 years developing recipes and resources for my son. She was horrified to find out that she would have to cook to make the recipes. I told her about the Tourette’s syndrome that happened to me when I started cooking and burning my fingers. And, we said what we always do “They’re worth it!” What have you learned from another mother? What have you shared with another mother?