When I read stories like the divorce of Chris Rock from Malaak Compton, I admire my friend who is going through a divorce even more. Despite the pain that her ex has caused her, she still makes sure that their children can see him. Because she loves her children, she bites her tongue and does not talk about her issues with their father. For her selfless devotion to her children, Christina (the name has been changed to protect her privacy) is one of my heroes. If you are going through a divorce, how are you handling visitation and shielding your children from the issues? If you need to vent, we are here to listen.